Friday, September 28, 2007

A Theory of A Little Ketam

When we stand in front of a mirror, we're expecting our own reflect.. well, not to say, the appearance will be almost 100% as we are. But what if, out of sudden the reflect hmmm.... become irrelevant, imbalance, and defected.

If we visited any fun fair, especially the ghost house, one of the major attraction will be the defected mirror. Our cute face will turned into the ugliest beast alien... eheheh.. (what laaa this term)... broken english... kehkehkeh...

Hm.. so do.. if our judgement turned wrong, and we fuck off in front of others not to say in front of our very own staffs.... in their eyes.. that's the reflection.... your image turned into undesired ugly face...

I think.. management is not easy... daily life, work, personal issues all needs management. Kalau tak takkanlaa banyak IPTA ataupun IPTS yang tawarkan courses in management, and yet people are willing to pay that mounted thousands of ringgit to get the certificate. It is easy, maybe when you're dealing with papers, books, assignment, and exam... but when it comes to practise... like Malays always said.. then only you know the height of the sky... (langit tinggi rendah dowhhh)

Judgement needs fairness, neutrality... so BIAS is a big no.. no... Preferebility is also a big no..no..

Bayangkan... kita cuba melatih seekor anak ketam untuk berjalan lurus. Well, banyak masa, tenaga yang kita gunakan untuk latih dia... we spend lots of time to teach it how to walk, which path to take, when to walk, almost every single thing as if, if possible we might also exchange place with it. Kita sendiri bertukar jadi ketam tu, dah susah sangat ketam tuh nak jalan lurus. We were so emotionally involved due to the effort given.


Pantang diusik, kita pula melenting, si anak ketam, sama ada turut menari mengikut gendang amarah atau terdiam seperti biasanya atas kejumudan yang ada.

But as time goes on, the stupid little ketam still jalan senget... and everybody still said.. "eh, that little fellow jalan senget"...not a single said, ALMOST EVERYBODY... hmmm... apa kita rasa yer??? Nak terajang orang yang kata tuh... or kita akan kata.. "well, kalau dia jalan senget I can't deny dia jalan senget, tapi you all kene tengok dari perspektif yg berbeza. I think you all pon kena jalan senget sama.. so then you will only understand what is the world of senget" Emotionally involved, you raise the voise to others.. and yet people listen to you with a six letter word in their heart.

Hahahah.. does it sound funny?? Well... relatively its sucks!!!!! Really sucks man!!! How would you ask a sound, well-mannered, INTELLIGENT person to behave that way.... walk senget to understand the senget world... Tak boleh ker the little one follows the majority, or pull her out of the community to avoid devian? Hmmm..... tapi kalau tak ada yang pelik, tak meriah hidup ini... No colors of the world... susah!!!

Well... let us see the world in different way.. we might do things wrongly once or twice.. or maybe more.. kitakan manusia, takkan lari dari kesalahan dan dosa... tapi kadang2 cara kita berfikir dan menilai sesuatu seringkali menggunakan satu perspektif... dan setiap kali itu, perspektif tuh takkan dapat memenuhi hati orang lain ataupun mungkin kita sendiri....

Tapi, dunia akan jadi berbeza kalau kita melihat masalah tu dari sudut orang lain.. contohnya.. kalau puak Israel memandang Palestin itu sebagai saudara yang tak mungkin akan dilukai.. tak mungkin akan ada peperangan seperti sekarang.. kalau US melihat rakyatnya sama rata, tanpa ada beza, mungkin mangsa Catherine dah dapat bantuan in 24 hours... dan kalau kita melihat peristiwa Surau Ar Rahman relatifnya sama dengan Kes BABI di Melaka.. mungkin Surau itu masih ada lagi sekarang......(Ya Allah... Tempat kami beribadat padaMu tiada harga kalau dibandingkan dengan kandang BABI)
Tapi.... berbeza kalau kita melihat dari perspektif yg lain... Palestin melihat Israel sebagai terlalu kuat dan perlu menguasai Palestin as a way for Israelis survival... haruskah Palestin berdiri dan berpeluk tubuh kerana thats what will be done by Israelis, biarkan saja tanah tumpah darah yang suci itu jatuh kepada orang lain.. sebuah negara yang bukan negara (kindly check your passport, kita kan tak iktiraf Israel sebagai negara) atau orang2 New Orlean rasa well, negros memang layak untuk diperlakukan macam tuh, diorang tak sama taraf dengan kulit putih... thousands black dying is worth than a white dying... what will happen??

Macam dalam kes Nurin Jazlin Jazimin, if the stupid bastard thinks (well... i forgot, the beast don't have brain) in the way.. if Nurin is his/her (well.. it...) daughter, will he threat her that way.... what will the parents and family felt.... Anak itu ampuh untuk dilukai dan diseksa.... kalau dia ada hati, akal yang waras... tak mungkin si kecil diperlakukan begitu... kalaupun dia tak meletak Nurin di tempat anaknya... letaklah dia di tempat Nurin, won't he suffer if being done that way.....?

But, if we think in the way the beast thinked, "memang budak tuh patut kena bunuh, kena aniaya dia sebab masa kecil aku teruk....aku didera, aku psycho.. this is what a psycho does...." then, what will we think.. forgive him??? (he don't deserved forgiveness!!!!) eheheheheh..... perspective is good, but which perspective will you prefer to choose, the right one.. or the wrong one....
Cuma.. satu saja yang aku boleh analisis sekarang.. no matter how much efforts have you poured in.. a STUPID little ketam.. will always remain STUPID. (titik)

Takziah untuk kelurga Nurin, you remain in our heart... tersenyumlah kau di sana..... bidadari kecil..............